Victim Mentality

A victim mentality is based on the original accusation of Satan,

that God is not fair.

For a person who has believed that lie,

others are always getting something,

doing something and going somewhere without telling them.

It’s a sad paranoia, that has stolen a person’s motivation and

ability to grow in healthy relationships.

People with a victim mentality will always find an excuse to avoid

responsibilities, ”How can I commit myself to a ministry, when

I haven’t, myself, received my own portion in life?”

Everything is someone else’s fault, never theirs.

Despite of all our life-experience and memories we all have been

given a new life, that is not based on somebody trying to compensate

our pain .Jesus voluntarily became the ultimate victim in order for

us to experience the love of God in it’s fullness.

With the new life, we have a new view on everything.

For some it means freedom from their own goodness,

for others it’s freedom from the myth called “fairness in life.”